THOUGHTFUL DEBATE

Kicking balls is the best way to beat Anger...... My earlier post I shared the experience of  game at school to hit with a ball and Tennis game to strike the ball. In both cases I was subtly venting my steam and channeling negative energy , thoughts into constructive output. This used to make me feel joyful and energetic. In both cases it supplemented my good health and hence good productivity. Once my friend invited me to Golf Course. It was my first visit and experience to visit a Gold course. Anyone who is a frequent ( each one is after the first visit) will appreciate this facts after you visit a Golf Course or Range. 1. The impressive GREEN lush lawns gives you a boost of energy and calmness. 2. The scenic landscaping and wide range gives a great boost to vision and bliss to eyes. 3. The calmness and serene environment cools all your stress the moment you walk on the greens. Just a visit gives you such a boost and makes you forget the fights, debate an stress...

Kicking balls is the best way to beat Anger...... Oh Shit! Hell with you! Damn Stupid!......we do utter this and other such stuff, at least once a day....at least I used to.... We do this to vent our steam....... We need to vent our steam to let go anger...... What is Anger ? When something happens not as per our wish or expectation. When we are stuck in traffic, and car ahead of you breaks-down, folks in rear start honking at you.....You get angry. When your Supervisor post appraisal , rates you as " Just Meets Expectation " , .....You get angry. When you are placed on hold or disconnected, via IVR to update your details on Credit Card...You get angry. When your flight is delayed , although weather conditions are good but the Airline has not update for you.....You get angry. All the above and many such similar situations make us angry. Anger is hidden in D anger Anger also leads to Stress, Stress leads to many irreversible challenges. Let me share fe...

Success Succeeds, Stress Screws...... Who would like to dis-agree, Stress is a Curse...... Well you can agree / dis-agree or agree to dis-agree.... Let me start with simple statement, "Today everyone is blessed with Stress" What is Stress...... Something which keeps us awake at night is Stress... We get worried about the Loan , repayment of Loan EMI and lose Sleep..... We get worried of school of our child and lose sleep... Something which gives us sadness feeling is Stress.... We compare our payslip with our colleague and get sad..... Something which triggers to be irritable is Stress... Something which triggers decrease in memory is Stress.... We go in the kitchen and wonder why did you come, you open the fridge and wonder why did you open... Something which triggers anger at innocent is Stress.... We get stuck in traffic, and keep honking.... Something which causes loss of appetite is Stress.... We visit our Favorite dining place , order the best d...

Quitters never Win...... Not everyone gets an Outstanding Rating, few do get "Does not Meet / OR  Just Meets Expectations" What do you do when you are told your performance "Does not Meet Expectations" ? I am sure one of the toughest and most uncomfortable time is to be having above experience. Few things to pay attention..... #1. Do not lose faith in self . #2. Do not believe someone with few more years experience, can judge you, to evaluate you correctly. #3. Do not become pessimistic. #4. Do not stop doing what you are good at. #5. Please write an e-mail to 5  people whom you know well, requesting for feedback. #6. Do not react to the evaluation, from emotional viewpoint. #7. Do not schedule meeting with your Manager for at least 1 week, for further action plan ( let the reactive trigger and emotional wave settle down ) #8. Do not start talking negative about Manager or Organisation (This does not make you feel or become any bette...

Snoring is Slow Killing Snoring in sleep is DANGEROUS for HEALTH...... If you Snore , it is time to take it SERIOUSLY.....  Snoring has extreme NEGATIVE IMPACTS....  #1. Snoring gives disturbed sleep. #2. Snoring causes momentary suffocation, NOT GOOD for HEART and BRAIN #3. Snoring causes TIRED and SLEEPY feeling during day. #4, Snoring causes LACK of CONCENTRATION and dip in efficiency. #5. Snoring may lead to Hypertension. #6. Snoring causes Sleep Apnea, cause of major road accidents #7. SNORING also is cause of DIVORCE cases.  Please DO NOT NEGLECT, Get it checked and overcome it.....I DID so can you.....

The Amazing Kite-Flier Every 'Makar Shankranti' festival the skies of Mumbai are dotted with kites of various shapes and colours. The sight of a kite flying far away never fails to bring a cheer to my heart. Years ago as a child in Mumbai my passion and obsession was ‘Kite-Flying’ , anytime of the year excepting the monsoons. To be a Kite flier one needs to have a good kite, twine, winding reel, eye-hand coordination and lots of patience. It’s a game of passion and energy. Any kite-flyer will know the importance of the above parameters for success. Of course as a child this came spontaneously. I never realized then that the possession of these few things which were so natural and spontaneous, would be the musings for a few People Management concept. Well so what has kite-flying really got to do with People Management concepts? Patience…..Patience , is one of the most important elements in kite-flying. When you start at launching a new kite, it does not immediately soa...

The most favorite topic of discussion or concern among young managers is, “How should we MANAGE our Managers?”. In fact I think the thought of managing the Managers is the most high-priority thought or concern after the most debated and liked topic “Sex”. Honestly speaking I wonder why everybody is so worried or concerned about managing the managers. They should either focus on Managing Self, Managing teams, Managing Health or Managing Spouse. Well all said and done , giving honest answer is not the best practice (I know it is paradoxical), not at least in current recession times. Well keeping humors apart, let us dissect this question and address the challenge. First and foremost the reality is “You can never choose your Parents and Managers”. So you either learn to “Live” with them or decide to “Leave” them. The choice is yours and entirely yours. I feel leaving should be the last action and actually never an option. So let us see “How to Learn to Live”.  Rule #1. ...